About Us

Agile & Adaptive

Holistic Transformation

Values-Driven

About Us

Agile & Adaptive

Holistic Transformation

Values-Driven

About Reality Switch Coaching

Our Philosophy

At Reality Switch Coaching, we believe that every relationship has the potential for deep connection, joy, and lasting love. Inspired by the agility of mixed martial arts and Bruce Lee’s “no way as way” philosophy, our approach is flexible, adaptive, and always evolving—because every couple’s journey is unique. We blend proven coaching techniques, NLP, and a heart-centered perspective to help you break old patterns and create a new reality together.

Why Reality Switch Coaching?

Too many couples get stuck in cycles of miscommunication, unmet expectations, and emotional distance. We know—because we’ve been there. Reality Switch Coaching was born from the belief that you don’t have to settle for a relationship that feels stale or disconnected. With the right tools, mindset, and support, you can reignite the spark, heal old wounds, and build a partnership that thrives.

Our Approach: The Water Mirror Method

Our signature Water Mirror Approach combines the best of NLP, hypnotherapy, TIME Techniques, and Life & Success Coaching. Like a martial artist, we draw from a variety of disciplines, adapting our methods to fit your unique needs. We use practical strategies, powerful metaphors, and a touch of spirituality to help you see yourself—and your partner—more clearly, so you can communicate, connect, and grow together.

What Makes Us Different

  • Agile & Adaptive: No one-size-fits-all solutions—your coaching journey is as unique as your relationship.

  • Holistic Transformation: We address both communication skills and the deeper emotional patterns that shape your connection

  • Real-World Experience: Our founder, Joohong Lange, brings personal insight from transforming his own marriage, plus years of coaching, leadership, and mentorship.

  • Values-Driven: Honesty, love, and faith are at the heart of everything we do.

About Reality Switch Coaching

Our Philosophy

At Reality Switch Coaching, we believe that every relationship has the potential for deep connection, joy, and lasting love. Inspired by the agility of mixed martial arts and Bruce Lee’s “no way as way” philosophy, our approach is flexible, adaptive, and always evolving—because every couple’s journey is unique. We blend proven coaching techniques, NLP, and a heart-centered perspective to help you break old patterns and create a new reality together.

Why Reality Switch Coaching?

Too many couples get stuck in cycles of miscommunication, unmet expectations, and emotional distance. We know—because we’ve been there. Reality Switch Coaching was born from the belief that you don’t have to settle for a relationship that feels stale or disconnected. With the right tools, mindset, and support, you can reignite the spark, heal old wounds, and build a partnership that thrives.

Our Approach:

The Water Mirror Method

Our signature Water Mirror Approach combines the best of NLP, hypnotherapy, TIME Techniques, and Life & Success Coaching. Like a martial artist, we draw from a variety of disciplines, adapting our methods to fit your unique needs. We use practical strategies, powerful metaphors, and a touch of spirituality to help you see yourself—and your partner—more clearly, so you can communicate, connect, and grow together.

What Makes Us Different

  • Agile & Adaptive: No one-size-fits-all solutions—your coaching journey is as unique as your relationship.

  • Holistic Transformation: We address both communication skills and the deeper emotional patterns that shape your connection

  • Real-World Experience: Our founder, Joohong Lange, brings personal insight from transforming his own marriage, plus years of coaching, leadership, and mentorship.

  • Values-Driven: Honesty, love, and faith are at the heart of everything we do.

ABOUT THE FOUNDER

Joohong Lange, MNLP, MTT, MLSC, MHT

Founder of Reality Switch Coaching

Hello, I’m Joohong Lange—the heart behind Reality Switch Coaching. I’m a Master Practitioner of NLP, hypnotherapy, and life coaching, and I’ve spent nearly a decade learning how to turn my own marriage from fiery arguments into real connection. My approach is kind of like mixed martial arts for relationships: flexible, adaptive, and always focused on what actually works for you.

With a background in project management and experience leading teams at Disney, I love bringing a little structure to the chaos of love. I’m also proud to be the 2025 Mentor of the Year with Big Brothers Big Sisters OC & IE. When I’m not coaching, you’ll find me reading, volunteering, or spending quality time with my wife—who inspires me every day to keep growing and helping others do the same.

I am Board Certified through an independent review board at the International Board of Clinical Practitioners, member number 12603. You can call the IBCP at 888-731-8375 to verify my credentials.

ABOUT THE FOUNDER

Joohong Lange,

MNLP, MTT, MLSC, MHT

Founder of Reality Switch Coaching

Hello, I’m Joohong Lange—the heart behind Reality Switch Coaching. I’m a Master Practitioner of NLP, hypnotherapy, and life coaching, and I’ve spent nearly a decade learning how to turn my own marriage from fiery arguments into real connection. My approach is kind of like mixed martial arts for relationships: flexible, adaptive, and always focused on what actually works for you.

With a background in project management and experience leading teams at Disney, I love bringing a little structure to the chaos of love. I’m also proud to be the 2025 Mentor of the Year with Big Brothers Big Sisters OC & IE. When I’m not coaching, you’ll find me reading, volunteering, or spending quality time with my wife—who inspires me every day to keep growing and helping others do the same.

I am Board Certified through an independent review board at the International Board of Clinical Practitioners, member number 12603. You can call the IBCP at 888-731-8375 to verify my credentials.

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